The mixer giveaway is still going on through noon today and winners will be announced Friday. Meanwhile, I wanted to re-post this recipe again for a slightly controversial frosting that I love so much I just made it again this week. And I realize it’s strange to call frosting controversial, but the comments on the original post did show mixed reactions and results. I happen to love it. Let me know if you’ve tried it yet!
From the TK Blog archives – March 2010
I’ve been intrigued with this frosting recipe for months, not just because of its alluring title, but also because if its ingredients. Five tablespoons of flour? In frosting? Let’s just say my interest was piqued.
I finally got around to making it yesterday evening; Marlboro Man’s grandmother has some old friends staying at The Lodge and I wanted to take them a treat. So I whipped up this frosting, slapped it on some chocolate cupcakes…and wound up considering not sharing them with the guests because it was so delicious.
You owe it to yourself to make this frosting sometime in your life.
You’ll just have to trust me on this.
Thank you, MissyDew, for submitting!
Here’s how you make it:
First things first: I made chocolate sheet cake cupcakes. They’re the best cupcakes around.
Here’s the recipe:
The Best Chocolate Sheet Cake (or Cupcakes!) Ever
Let your cupcakes (or cake) cool completely.
Begin by pouring 5 tablespoons of flour into 1 cup of milk. I used whole milk because I can if I want.
After adding the flour, whisk it together until combined, then place the saucepan over medium heat. Whisk it as it heats up and thickens, and stop when the mixture is very thick.
Cool the mixture completely.
The mixture will be very, very thick.
Add 1 teaspoon of vanilla to the cooled flour/milk mixture.
Stir it around to combine.
Pour one cup of sugar into a bowl with one cup of butter.
Whip it around until it’s light and fluffy, scraping the bowl once or twice to make sure it’s all mixed well.
Add the cooled flour/milk/vanilla mixture. Make sure it’s not the least bit warm!
I’m bossy. Sorry.
Next, just whip it on medium-high until the mixture resembled whipped cream.
This was slightly tricky for me, as I was afraid of overbeating the mixture and causing everything to start breaking down and falling apart. I’d say this is about 45 seconds of pretty hard beating.
And then it was time for the rubber to meet the road.
This was spread with a big spatula…
This was spread with a dinner knife. The frosting definitely has a whipped cream consistency; it’s not thick like a decorator icing.
Before I allowed myself to taste it, I made some sprinkled ones for my punks.
This makes for a crunchy cupcake!
And now…for the moment of truth.
THE VERDICT: Okay. Let me just explain something to you. After I took this bite, I looked around for the hidden camera. I was certain someone was playing a trick on me. This frosting is so UNBELIEVABLY divine, I almost couldn’t believe what was happening to me. The consistency is light, the flavor indescribably delicious, and a perfect complement to the rich chocolate cake. And don’t just take my word for it—after my daughter took her first bite, she looked at me and said “WHAT is this FROSTING?”
Even she knew she was in the presence of greatness.
Here’s the frosting recipe:
That’s the Best Frosting I’ve Ever Had
Note: I would probably recommend making the frosting on the same day you intend to serve it.
Thank you to MissyDew for sharing such a great recipe!

































Merideth on Monday, October 11
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Ashley on Monday, October 11
I've been making this frosting for years now, with a few changes, after finding it on allrecipes.com. I'm not a fan of overly sweet, powdered sugar butter creams. In fact, I despise them. They are so sweet they make my teeth feel like they are going to fall out. This butter cream is SO much better and I've been trying to convince people of that ever since I started making it! I'm sure you'll be able to get the word out more than I can. ;) If people don't like this, they must not be following the directions carefully enough! hehe302
Erin on Monday, October 11
This frosting looks great! I have never tried one like this before so I am really interested on how it is going to come out. If I wanted chocolate frosting would I just add some bitter sweet chocolate to it?303
Erin in Austin,TX on Monday, October 11
I love this frosting! I love the way it makes the roof of my mouth smooth and I love that it is not " sick sweet". Super yum:)304
Betsy B. on Tuesday, October 12
YUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMY!305
culinarycapers on Tuesday, October 12
I made this yesterday for a carrot cake. It was wonderful! like buttercream only fluffier and less sweet. I had no trouble with seperating, pasty taste or funny texture etc...it came out really smooth and evenly white. I cooked the flour and milk over medium heat whisking constantly for about 5 minutes... undercooked and it would have tasted like flour. then I creamed soft butter with the sugar for a good 5 to 8 minutes on high speed in the Kitchenaid, until it was fluffy and I couldn't taste any suger grains, then I added the flour mixture and beat that another 2 minutes on high. This is my new go to frosting recipe...I can't wait to use it again! and it refrigerated just fine on the frosted cake.306
Charlene Thompson on Tuesday, October 12
Like others here, I have made this icing for years to put on my red velvet cake. My original recipe called for shortening like some of the others. I will be trying it with butter instead. I really liked it before, so I'm sure I will love it with butter. Thanks for the post.307
Jenny on Wednesday, October 13
GENIUS! this is amazing, I'll be trying soon!308
SassyLassy on Wednesday, October 13
My mom's been using this recipe for over 20 years! She can't go to any church function or family reunion without it. It doesn't get any easier than this for homemade!309
Yahaira L. on Wednesday, October 13
I've made this frosting twice already. My family and I love it, but mostly when it's cold. My kids don't like the buttery taste when it's room temperature, but when it's cold they devour it. They say it tastes like vanilla ice cream. I've seen the chocolate version online somewhere, which I will try as soon as possible.310
Becky on Wednesday, October 13
I like this but I make it as filling for whoopie pies.311
Nona on Thursday, October 14
Looks yummy!312
swantine on Thursday, October 14
It delicious! For the naysayers: When cooking with flour, you really have to let the heat cook it up a bit. Even when making gravy or bechamel sauce, you must allow the heat to cook that flour just a bit (usually before adding more liquid). Some of you are saying it tasted "pasty" and "like flour" so I believe that is the problem. The little bit of heat from the saucepan at the beginning is very important when you are making something creamy with a flour base. Give it a couple of extra seconds on the heat. That is my suggestion. Hope you try it again 'cause I love this stuff!313
Erica on Thursday, October 14
I tried out this recipe, but it doesn't whip as well with soy milk and soy margarine (I am allergic to milk). It turns out more soupy, but if you lessen the amount of soy milk, up the sugar and put in the flour, it's wonderful. I always hated the super-sugary taste of frosting since I can't eat store-bought I always have to make my own. Now, knowing I can use flour to tame down the sugar and bulk up the frosting...let's just say: yay!314
pirutt on Thursday, October 14
I can't figure out how to comment on the brainstorm ?s, which means no contest entry I suppose, which is somewhat devastating. But anyways, here's my thought on TK 2.0... I love that you have step by step pictures. Sometimes the verbiage on recipes is my downfall and I used to write recipes for a living! I like everything about it TK now, but a collapsable catalogue would be an easier way to click dinner>sides>creamy grits. It's frustrating when each click needs to load its own page. Or maybe a drop down. Also, since so many of us like cooking & photography, could you have a gallery attachment of the recipes where we simpletons could post our own pick of our plated successes or failures with that particular recipe. It could maybe be an icon that opens it at the bottom of each recipe post. Sometimes I think I can't make a recipe because I haven't had as much experience, haven't written any cookbooks. But, seeing hundreds of ladies did it too would be quite encouraging, and then you could segway onto "how to photograph food" too. Those are my suggestions. Maybe someday I'll win a mixer, but I'm just happy to help.315
Carolyn on Thursday, October 14
The first time I made it I loved it. The second time I'm not sure what I did wrong but I could never get it to set up right and it ended up sliding off the cake by the end of the day. I haven't tried it a 3rd time - I just make a cake yesterday and went back to the standby buttercream.316
Pam on Thursday, October 14
This is the frosting that I've always used for red velvet cake instead of cream cheese icing. I've never had it any other way and it is delicious.317
joey on Thursday, October 14
sounds very rich & very decadent!318
Ann E on Thursday, October 14
Have used this recipe for years for red velvet cake.319
forheartandsoul on Friday, October 15
Ree - this reminds me of a 'frosting' (we call it icing here in Australia) that a chef-ing friend used to make. He called it Mock Cream, and it is oh SOOOOOOOOOOO good!320
Elspeth on Friday, October 15
Does this frosting hold up? Could I use it for wedding cupcakes in June? Or is that heading for disaster...?321
Nancy on Friday, October 15
that is the frosting used on , Red Velvet Cake322
Caroline in Tennessee on Friday, October 15
HELP!!!!!! I made this icing today and leave it to me to screw it up! I am pretty darn good cook but a baker...not so much. It ended up runny! I could literlly drink it and true to all of the comments the flavor is yummy! I let my butter soften. Is that where I messed up? Please someone comment and let me know! I have a batch of unfrosted cupcakes just waiting to be slathered with some of the 'best frosting'!!323
Nicole on Tuesday, October 19
I love this frosting! My Mom used to make it for every cake growing up. She always put the leftovers on graham crackers for us. So GOOD!!!!!324
Anonymous on Saturday, October 23
I have the same recipe and it is called Lamb Frosting - so good!325
Betsy on Tuesday, October 26
This is almost identical to a frosting recipe I discovered the other day at "Our Best Bites". A slight difference is the Our Best Bites uses has 1 more T of flour. But a much larger difference is they have you whip the frosting on high for 7-9 minutes. It gets so smooth and light and tastes fantastic (I assume it tastes similar to this recipe here, but the consistency may be different.) I've used the Our Best Bites recipe twice in the last week and plan on using it this weekend again. Try whipping it for awhile and see what you think!! :)326
Rae on Saturday, October 30
So I was having a blue day and made this frosting (yes, just the frosting) about a week ago and rented Valentine's Day on my TV and ate the whole bowl. Best idea ever! LOL. Ummmmm...it was sooooooo good. I think the heat on my flour concoction was a little too high because it was so thick my forearm was soar by the end of mixing it. I also only had salted butter in the house BUT it still turned out incredible. I mixed it for a long time in my stand mixer and just watched it get lighter and fluffier as the time ticked by. My brother even taste tested it and loved it! And he only likes the stuff on sheet cakes from the supermarket. I think it's a great frosting for those who are afraid of making frosting at home. It's like you could do everything wrong (like I did) and still it comes out the best frosting ever!327
MrsBailey on Monday, November 1
I made it this weekend as the filling for chocolate sandwich cookies with my niece and nephew. We portioned it three ways and tinted it orange, green and purple for Halloween! Everyone loved it.328
lizziek on Wednesday, November 3
Made this tonight and the fam LOVED it! :)329
Karen on Thursday, November 4
I've made several variations of this frosting recipe, including a sugar-free version with Splenda substituted for the sugar (it works very well!) and a St. Patty's Day version where I substituted Bailey's for half of the milk. Yummo! :) By the way, this frosting makes an awesome filling inside of chocolate cupcakes... or ANY kind of cupcake, for that matter.330
Bobbie on Monday, November 22
Does anyone else have trouble with the frosting feeling grainy? I've tried different brands of sugar, but still get that grainy feeling.331
rhianna on Thursday, December 2
your recipe is so easy to follow thanks to your wonderful pictures, an excellent recipe and my girls enjoyed following the recipe according to the pictures!!332